You’ve seen him once or twice …
He’s really cute and hot.
He seems interested and he’s very polite.
You feel the attraction, yet he hasn’t made a move.
It’s Very frustrating when you want him to initiate a conversation and you don’t know what’s going on.
Today’s video shows you why a cute man may not be pursuing and what you can do about it.
If a man you find attractive is attracted to you, yet he’s not asking you out, there’s a reason for it. And it’s not just because he’s married or gay.
Enjoy!
Love,
Cherry
P.S. If you’re confused because he seems interested, but isn’t acting on it, you must see this video!
{ 26 comments… read them below or add one }
Good tip! Take my focus off that hot guy who’s not making a move, as I want to stay in receptivity. :0)
Bravo, Marlene!
You GOT IT!
Love, Cherry
Thank you Cherry for your generosity in sharing your wisdom. I really appreciate your videos.
Your welcome, Florence!
Thanks for tuning in!
Love, Cherry
Hi Cherry,
“Got it”…love that tip!
Please…keep them coming.
Thank you,
Alena
Got it, Alena!
I”ll keep ‘em coming!
Love, Cherry
Good afternoon, Cherry! I just want to echo the words of Florence ~
“Thank you Cherry for your generosity in sharing your wisdom. I really appreciate your videos.” !
Thank you Sharon!
I so appreciate your tuning in!
Love, Cherry
The music is so cute!
Thanks, Lorene
Love, Cherry
You make my day Cherry. You are so much fun and wise to boot! Oh where did that come from? I should just say wise too!
Yay, Anthia!
Thanks so much!
Love, Cherry
Don’t forget that you can continue to be receptive to him, too! Just don’t expect anything from it (or any other men)- it’s a lot more graceful to be soft and kind to all people regardless of whether you get a date out of it or not.
Excellent comment, Rin!
… And so true!
Love, Cherry
How do you find out if the man is married or in a relationship, without coming right out and asking? How do you know if he’s interested or just being friendly? I’m so afraid of rejection that I just act friendly and wait for them to make a move. Alas, nothing happens.
Mary Beth,
Keep smiling and if a man is interested, he will make a move!
Love, Cherry
Cherry, thank you for your wonderful, wise weekly tips! This one really resonates with me because I tend to get hung up on the ones not initiating instead of silently saying, “NEXT!”
Great awareness, Tina!
There are always more men …
Love, Cherry
Hello Cherry,
Thank you for your simple yet profound advice. You make it seem so matter of fact, and in fact it is. Your videos permet me to retrieve my cool. I just boil up inside still. Ha, ha. But the got it line-end is just what the doctor ordered to help me to relax. Thank you again.
Jean
Great Jean!
Happy to hear my videos keep you cool and help you to relax!
Love, Cherry
Hi Cherry
This is great advice. Thank you for all your help and advice I guess it all boils down to common sense
L.
Thanks, Laurie!
Many times it’s that simple
Love, Cherry
Dear Cherry,
great tip! thank you thank you once more….
if I may share my 5 cents in the subject of “he seems interested but he hasn’t made a move…”….real story …just recently happened to me…
this great guy at work…. we’ve been enjoying talking to each other at work…for last 6 months… to the point where I’d be waiting for the day when he comes to my office…(he works only once or twice a week in my location)…and I could see the same body language in him…He just loved talking to me, sharing, flirting but with respect…Before my 1 month holidays in August..I couldn’t believe that we’re not gonna exchange a phone number or at least email to keep in touch during this 1 month holidays…. he didn’t initiate …so I (yes …I) suggested exchanging email address to “keep in touch”…he didn’t pick up on that …sort of ignored it …but i could see that he was “burning” while looking at me, being around me…after 1 month holidays…the chemistry was still there..love of talking to each other still there…I was deep into him and his body language and what he said was expressing the same…he was really into me…couple more months passed…he still didn’t ask me for a phone number…Finally I just couldn’t wait any longer..and when I put like…what’s up …I can’t wait any longer…After his initial…”yeah, we have to get it started somewhere…” …he spilled out the truth…”that it’s complicated as he is still in an unfinished relationship”. What the !@%!*??? I didn’t see it coming…6 months later he tells me that he is interested but he hasn’t made a move ….because he is in a relationship….
So ladies…my opinion…if he hasn’t made a move…there is a reason for it….(and it is not because he is shy…)
Bravo, Eva!
Great story. Thanks for sharing. It’s true. If a man hasn’t made a move, there’s a reason for it.
Love, Cherry
I agree with you, Cherry, but I found men do not like a woman make the first move on them before they sent women a signal in general? I am not sure if I am limiting my beliefs. Someone was very interested in me and attracted to me a while ago, then he never made move to see me, when I asked to see him, he disappeared for the past 5 months, I still have not heard a word from him since. So, that approved to me that I should never made that ‘move’. I want to know what do you think of it? I appreciate it.
I have been attracted to a younger man he is 42, I am 56. I can tell by his body language, the way he looks at me or shy aways, he is experiencing similar feelings. We have “soul mate” conversations. However, We are both in committed relationships, so possibilities don’t exist. It is both sad and exciting. So yes I believe two people can, no matter their ages, can be together. The truly brave ones, can break the chains of society and social norms and have a wonderful life together.