On-line dating is one of the best ways to meet a man and get to know a little about him before you do.
So let’s say you’re perusing on-line profiles and you see one you like.
He’s quite cute and you find him interesting enough to want to say “hello.”
So how do you get his attention without coming on too strong?
How do you attract him without being “The Man” and pursuing him?
Today’s video shows gives you a fun, fail-proof tip on how to attract a quality man without chasing him.
When you see a man on-line you find interesting, often a wink isn’t enough.
See how you can attract him and set it up so he pursues you!
Enjoy and leave me a comment below on how you attract men you like on line!
Love,
Cherry
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Great advice Cherry! Right now I’m hoping to catch the eye of a man online without looking too assertive and I really liked your idea! Thanks so much for your awesome advice/tips! Keep them coming!
Hi,
I always enjoy your tips, very helpful. Than you.
This is very good advice! Sometimes it gets the man’s attention to “wink”, but if it doesn’t – I say, who’s next!
Thank you Cherry. On-line dating has been so disheartening. I feel more peaceful and natural as an ingenue. These practical tips are so encouraging
I love how you counted six seconds on your fingers while you smiled. For some reason six seconds seemed like a really long time to me intellectually, but seeing you do it in person didn’t make it seem like a creepy long time at all.
Hi, Cherry – What a great tip! I’m doing the online dating thing, and just sitting back waiting to be contacted (as I imagined an ingenue must do) feels so … passive … yet I prefer to be pursued. You’ve given me a great way to indicate interest without chasing the man. Thank you!
Hi Cherry,
I love your idea about commenting on something admirable. I have been online but not dating. I have sent out so many winks, and not one single man has ever responded to a wink. I felt stuck. I’m going to try this. I love all your tips, Cherry. Please keep them coming!
Good advice. Even with sending out emails, it can be a little disheartening if you send out say 10 emails and maybe get 1 response back, but you’re right to not take it personally! thanks!
Hi Cherry,
I received a wink from a man. I sent him a short email. It has been about 2 weeks and he has never responded. While going through my old emails I saw an email he had sent me in November 2010. I remember replying and then never heard from him. He had said he had broken his leg and hoped it would heal quickly. It is strange when someone appears to be interested in you but then lets the ball drop. I guess if it is meant to be it will be but it is rather frustrating.
Thanks Cherry!
Valerie
Excellent as usual!
Thank you so much for sharing your comments and stories!
So appreciate you tuning in and happy to hear you’re finding the tips and strategies useful and inspiring!
Here’s to your romantic success in meeting & marrying your man!
Love, Cherry
Thank you, Marlene!
Happy you enjoy the reminders!
Love, Cherry
Hey Cherry,
First of all, I love some of the tips suggested, especially the “wink” as others suggested. The little wink face REALLY is powerful ladies, it sends out a lot of messages
You have a great style, and I’ve even learnt a few things myself. Men really aren’t that complicated ladies, despite what you may think!
Lisa Harris ~ -http://truthsaboutmen.info/
Good Advice Cherry, thanks and keep up the tips. Cheers Joy
Hi Cherry and other fellow daters!
Thanks for your advice on how to attract a man online. Unfortunately I find if I write at all they get such an attitude or EGO! Even if I wrote, Hello, I'm really curious about (fill in the blank) would you mind telling me more? "
They usually write back very cocky or with an attitude and I can tell they now view me a "lower class" woman? So the best I can do is check out a guys profile and on a site that shows who viewed you. Then they know I've seen them.
Many men write on their profiles they aren't going to chase or some other phrasing of that sort and come out and say, "If you want me you have to email me." Those are the men I avoid as to me it signals they don't want to be the masculine energy, could be players, or are lazy. Perhaps I'm wrong about this?
Also many men throw me their numbers or try to bait me to do the work, "Here's my number, if you call me then I'll take you to dinner." IT doesn't feel good to me. But perhaps I'm misunderstanding?
Any thoughts?
Thanks!
Hi Beth,
Thanks for your note. From now on, write “I admire that you (fill in the blank)” and end it there! Asking him to tell you more is too leading. You’re absolutely correct to pass on men who invite you to chase. They’re advertising for a different woman.
Carry on!
Love,
Cherry
As a Dating & Relationship Coach for Women, I can say that Cherry's advice today was RIGHT ON. Yes that's right, it's ok to wink at a man or better yet, drop him a "brief" note picking something of interests from his profile. A simple note is like a 6 second smile and if he responds, then let the fun begin. Good Luck
Thanks for your validation, Johathon!!
Love you!
Cherry
I also think adding him to your "favorites" list is a good way to let him know you appreciate him without being too forward. Then seeing if he responds.
Thank you, Cherry. That was very helpful.
HI, Cherry: I had a man that visited my website for a week everyday. But never said a word. So I sent him about a 5 word note and he responded with a tiny note and his phone number. I did not feel comfortable calling him so soon so my dog wrote his dog a note and I got the nicest letter back. We are now dating. Although he has 3 master degrees he does not e-mail more than a line or two and is shy. The computer is not something he likes.