To Call Him Or Not To Call …

by Cherry Norris on September 16, 2015

In the busy times of life, it's important to remember to take time to relax and feeeeel good!  

Your on-going mantra is "I feel good to do good."

It feels great when you're out doing something you enjoy …

Like attending an event or taking a jaunt through the park …

When quite unexpectedly … you meet a new man.

You feel a connection the moment you speak.  You learn you have things in common.

He's really quite cute and you'd love to see him again.

The problem is, you part without saying "good-bye" 

AND unfortunately … you don't know anything about him.  

Today's video gives you a fun, fail-proof tip on what to do when you want to re-meet a new man and don't know whether to reach out and call.  

If you're wondering if and how you should call a man, you must see this now.  

Thank you so much for watching.   

Please share it with your friends and leave your comments below!




{ 14 comments… read them below or add one }

Joana September 20, 2015 at 5:11 pm

Thank you for protecting us from heart break, Cherry! I love your wise tips 🙂


Jen September 20, 2015 at 2:50 am

Cherry, great advice! Question along same lines: I met the surgeon last week who will be performing my surgery in 2 weeks. We had amazing chemistry and the meeting felt electric. I later found out he is single (divorced). Friends have joked about things I could do or say while in the hospital. What to do that shows my interest, but allows him to ask me out?


sharrie September 19, 2015 at 2:48 am

Great video…was engaged…he broke it off…I tried to figure out why…I realize, I was doing all of the work ..should have just let him “keep on walking”.. .thanks for the tip!


Liz September 19, 2015 at 2:14 am

Lovely video, Cherry 🙂 Reminds me of the idea of "dropping the hanky" – a way to get his attention without being the pursuer. Really nice. Thank you!


AnaMaria September 18, 2015 at 11:18 pm

Love your message and videos! 


AnaMaria September 18, 2015 at 11:17 pm

Enjoy  your videos and straight messsages! 😉


molly January 22, 2014 at 2:00 pm

First of all, best wishes for tremendous success with
"Becky's New Car!"
I would not call…..sorry, but what would be the point?
If he is interested, really interested, he will find you


Jeannette January 20, 2014 at 2:25 am

Hi Cherry,
I wanted to reach out to you because I really enjoyed the webinar on Saturday, 1/18/14.  I got so much out of it and appreciate the insightful advice that you provided.  Financially, I cannot attend the coaching but I just wanted to let you know how I really appreciate the webinar.  
Thank you,


Cherry Norris January 20, 2014 at 6:45 pm

Thank you, Jeannette.  Happy you enjoyed it!


Tina January 19, 2014 at 2:36 am

I agree! She has already made a move by giving him the CD. At that time, he could have gotten her contact information. He also could have called to thank her for the CD if he does have her contact information. You're right, Cherry. If she calls about the CD, and he's interested, he'll either make a move or contact her later.


willow July 20, 2012 at 6:57 pm

Yes, good idea to call w/o asking him out.
I feel its a fine line… she is giving the cd without receiving, as per Dr Pat.. and if he was interested, that was his chance. If she calls him after giving the cd, it seems like she's not being the feminine receptive energy as she's initiating on 2 counts. your thoughts Cherry?


Cherry Norris July 20, 2012 at 11:14 pm

Thanks for your note, Willow. It is a fine line. She’s presenting twice to see if he’ll “pick up the handkerchief.” If he doesn’t, he’s not going to and she can move on.


SmilesForJen July 19, 2012 at 4:19 am

Great idea for her to call about the CD without asking him out! Heard the Art of Love Series with Arielle Ford and I agree with you 100% regarding Women making the first move. While I respected the other Ladies, I had to agree to disagree.  I used to ask Men out, always got the dates, thinking I'm empowered but I found that they were only looking to receive and never give to the relationship. I changed my ways. Like Dr. Pat Allen says, too many Men w/ Vagina's and Women w/Penis' LOL


Cherry Norris July 19, 2012 at 4:36 pm

Amen, sister! Thanks for your note!


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