When you meet a new man, it's wonderful!
Even better when he treats you like a princess and wants to please you!
Detail is, when he calls you up and invites you out, he asks you to make the plan!
Today's video gives you a fun, fail-proof tip on what to do the next time a man wants you to lead.
RIDICULOUS ALERT: Gotta give you fair warning on this one. I kinda ran out of ideas and ended up with something … rather stupid.
Even if you're scratching your head and wondering what kool-aid I'm drinking, I hope it makes you laugh 
Thanks for watching and leaving your comments below about how you handle a man who wants you to take the reigns.
Enjoy!
Love,
Cherry
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Hi Cherry,
You're horse ride was adorable and I LAUGHED out loud! And congratulations on directing!
Sometimes men don't know what they're doing. By that I mean, the man mentioned in the letter doesn't realize he's asking her to lead and he's setting himself up to bond less to her. So for her to just say, "I'd like you to lead…" that will get his attention, great advice. And it gives him time to process this and figure out if he can or not.
One other thought is, from reading Pat Allen whom you've referenced as well, he may really be a Beta male or a boy. Guys are trained to initially pursue and even boys or Betas will do that but as time goes on their true nature comes out and they may really show they want to be pampered, are Beta or is an immature boy? He may be feeling comfortable in the relationship and he's revealing his true nature?
So it's great she's stating it and he'll either rise to the occasion or he may not really be ready to be a man or leader?
Happy Friday to all!
Hi Cherry, Funny video, as always…You are just too cute!! When this has happened to me over the years, I usually throw out a few things I like, things I like to do & something I'm in the mood for & then ask him to use his imagination to connect the dots…Over the years, it has made for some REALLY fun & interesting dates…(and some kinda weird ones too…lol)….Never a dull moment & the guy is happy that he was given a few clues to piece together & come up w/something really unique! YeeHaw…saddle up cowboy!
SBSUZ~
You go cowgirl!!
Thanks!
LOVE your videos Cherry!! Was very glad to hear that your solution was the same one I came up with for the same issue with my boyfriend and I can confirm it works really well – now he brings me a few options and I choose and we're both happy
What show are you directing in Hollywood? Would love to see it and hopefully meet you.
Thanks, Dianne!
So happy to hear you’re both happy!
The show I’m directing is “Here’s to Love” at Anthony Meindle’s in Hollywood.
… scenes of very funny dates! (lol)
Thursdays Feb. 7 & 14 at 8:00
RSVP: 323-993-7113
Would love to meet you there!
Cherry
Sometimes men plan dates as surprises and they are not always things I am comfortable with. For example on that show The Bachelor he takes women sky diving, bungie jumping or rock climbing, helecopters scare me and so does horback riding smelly animals… For me that is not my thing and feel very uncomfortable doing such things. I don't feel like I need to prove how tough or brave I am for him to like me or even be his bootcamp buddy on a date. Soooo not romantic. I am very outgoing in other ways though so I am not a party pooper but those things could be life threatening. I love life to much to risk it doing stupid things like jumping off a building. How does a gal tell a guy who has set up such a date that its not cool with her without making herself look like she doesn't know how to have fun or insult his idea for the date?
I meant HorseBack riding not horback riding. I am a respectable gal.
"I meant HorseBack riding not horback riding. I am a respectable gal."
And you have a good sense of humor too!
Ladies, I agree
Thank you so much for answering my question, Cherry. I'll try that next time my boyfriend asks me out – yes, I'm so happy that he's my boyfriend now! We just celebrated our second-month anniversary a few days ago and our relationship is going great.
Yay Jasmin!
Sooo happy for you
Love, Cherry