When He’s Younger And You Can’t Have (Or Don’t Want) Children …

by Cherry Norris on November 24, 2011

If you’re a vibrant single woman who looks younger than your age …

It’s natural young men find you attractive.

It’s natural they invite you out.

And because “young men” typically have more energy than “old men,” it’s easy to have waaaay more fun.

But what if you can’t have or don’t want children …

Does it mean you shouldn’t get involved?

Today’s Video answers a question that may be lurking in your mind … what do you do if you like younger men and can’t have (or don’t want) children?

When I was single, I discounted many men who I believed wanted children … including my husband! What I discovered may surprise you!

Enjoy, have a wonderful weekend and leave a comment below!

Love,

Cherry

P.S. If you’re a vibrant single woman who’s attracted to younger men and you can’t have (or don’t want) children, you must watch this video!

{ 4 comments… read them below or add one }

Ella November 25, 2011 at 5:11 pm

Dear Cherry, just like Sophia I attract a lot of young men but don’t seem to be able to keep them close as much as I want to. What can it be? Thanks in advance.

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chai November 26, 2011 at 9:54 pm

Ella,

i feel the same, i often ‘scare’ them away once we got too closed. I am also not be able to keep them close as much as I want to. Um! what shall we do about it as a woman? I don’t have the clue either, though I really want to have the clue. would you share it with me a bit about that? thanks.

chai

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Renee November 26, 2011 at 7:48 pm

Hi Cherry! As always, your advice is brilliant and loving, too ;-) Wanted to share another twist on this – something that has happened to me. When I was first divorced, I was just past 40 but looked much younger. At that time, I wasn’t wanting to jump back into marriage, just enjoy a fun and loving relationship. Younger men were the natural attraction for me, too. A few men I met still wanted more children, but most men I met had children from a previous marriage. Because I didn’t have children, and they did – most of them assumed it would be a problem for me that THEY didn’t want more children, assuming that I still wanted children. What a surprise, for me! Another assumption I discovered, from men who were raising children from a previous marriage with an absentee mother, was that they often assumed I would be eager to jump in and become a new mother to their children. Of course, that is a complex situation requiring careful consideration! Just wanted to share my discoveries, and of course these are more reasons to follow your sage advice to discuss this issue fully in the early stage of a relationship. Thanks for the great advice – you rock ;-)

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Anthia Ashe November 28, 2011 at 8:08 am

Dear Cherry,

You share so much of yourself, it is so endearing and so helpful. Always such interesting topics and such good advice. Thanks a million. Love Anthia

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