Kissing and cuddling a variety of men works to your advantage in love!
That’s why it’s important to “duty date!”
The hilarious romantic comedy, DUTY DATING, shows you exactly how to attract many suitors (and juggle the toads) on the road to meeting and marrying your man. lol.
Enjoy!
Love,
Cherry
P.S. See why it’s important to kiss and cuddle many men in the feature film, DUTY DATING!
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My concern with dating/kissing/cuddling more than one man at a time is calling one (or more) of them by another’s name! How does one avoid doing that? Also, I hate it when people call this “serial dating.” It sounds criminal. Why not “casual dating.” Isn’t that what dating is, anyway (until it’s serious)?
I don’t agree with this approach for a person who is serious about having a committed life partnership. If a person wants to stay in dating and just have ‘fun’ with a bunch of guys, this is the way to go.
These kind of relationships go no where, in my experience. This is ‘dating’/mating, not courtship. The guy isn’t committed, he probably doesn’t even want a relationship, and certainly not a committed one, he has even told you so!, you are not getting as much attention and appreciation as you want, he is giving other women romantic attention too, so you fill in with other guys…..who don’t want that much attention and time with you either or who YOU are not really that interested in, they love you and you go to them to get the love you aren’t getting with the one you really love……, you start doing the same as he is doing (acting out and being careless, focused on getting, rather than loving others and yourself), so then what have you got?? Two guys that you are not totally happy with and two relationships that are going no where (your wills are not aligned), and secretly you are hoping you are going to win this game and someone is going to choose you at some point and want a committed relationship with you? You are hoping for a CHANGE. Oh dear, we have all heard about this mistake….hoping he will change. Why would he do that? You are willing to settle for less. You are not even loving yourself.
Do you really want a committed relationship/life partnership? Then love and respect yourself by choosing a man that is available and wants a committed relationship too, one that is interested in you, one that you feel appreciated by, one that gives you the time and attention that you desire to have, one that you feel loved and cared about by, ONE THAT YOU ARE HAPPY WITH NOW, one that cares about what you want and need and is responsive when you ask for what you want and need. One that is enough and all of what YOU want to have! Be the chooser, be what you want to have (committed, focused, sincere, loving, and caring), give one relationship at a time a chance and either you are happy with it and you keep going, or you accept that you are not happy, communicate your wants and needs heartfully, and if he is not responsive or compatible, move on gracefully. Yes women, love yourself, and you will be loved. Love is not a game. Love is loving, and it starts with loving yourself and being honest and caring about what you want and how you feel, and by following your feelings. All the best.
Hello-
First, Cherry is that ring REAL?
I understand the dating and cuddling without sex until in a
committed relationship. What do you mean by committed? Married? Exclusive?
I know lots of men will claim to want to be exclusive and temporarily be exclusive to get women to have sex with until he wants to move on…..so how to weed out exclusive and committed with longevity VS exclusivity and short term affair? And what if he thinks he does but really doesn’t?
Thanks
I LOVE this approach. I have been dating a lot. Getting to know men and how they think. I recently went out on a first date for lunch four days ago. I really liked him. He asked me if I would like to see him again, this time for dinner and I said yes. He sent me an email the night of our date saying he had a good time , I responded with a thank you I had a great time too. I have been waiting for a call from him for the last three days, nothing. But since I have been making plans with other men I don’t feel the need to call or email the guy I like. I’m waiting for him to make the next move. There is no reason why women can’t “date” more than one man at a time. When you do find the one and both of you decide to take it to the next level then being just with him is good.
Yay, Eva!
You got it! Give yourself as many choices as possible!
Love, Cherry
hi Eva, Thanks for sharing..very inspiring : )
I like what you say Eva, about not waiting around and moving on to date another man. I think this is how I can relate to this “Duty Dating” idea. Keep going until you get what you want, in other words. That makes sense to me. I’m going to give it a go. Thanks ladies, for sharing your experience. Blessings to you all.